Episode Summary
In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver addresses the question of how to deal with individuals who have low emotional intelligence. He explains that the approach depends on the specific area where their emotional intelligence is lacking. If they exhibit low self-awareness, Mike suggests kindly making them aware of their blind spots by speaking the truth in love and sharing insights or anecdotes. Similarly, if they lack social awareness regarding how they are perceived, he advises gently bringing this to their attention. The key is to identify the specific area of deficiency and address it directly and constructively.
Key Takeaways
- The best way to deal with someone with low emotional intelligence depends on the specific aspect they are lacking.
- If someone lacks self-awareness, gently make them aware by sharing insights or anecdotes in a kind and loving way.
- If someone lacks social awareness (how they are perceived), inform them directly but kindly about their perceived behaviors.
Notable Quotes
- “What’s the best way to deal with somebody with low emotional intelligence?”
- “If they lack self-awareness, you can make them aware in a kind way. Those of you who are regular watchers hear me say all the time, speak the truth in love.”
- “First, you figure out the area where they lack emotional intelligence or where it’s diluted, and then you address that specific area.”
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