Mondays with Mike

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver addresses how to coach a team member who is clashing with others. He begins by emphasizing the importance of working on relationships and cultural dynamics as much as on work dynamics. Leaders should foster good relationships through socializations and team meetings where…

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver addresses a common management challenge: an employee consistently missing deadlines despite claiming they’re doing their best. Mike suggests starting by re-emphasizing the deadline and ensuring the manager was clear about expectations. He then advises discussing the downstream importance of meeting deadlines and…

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver tackles the challenge of coaching individuals who resist change. He debunks the myth that people inherently resist change, asserting instead that people resist change when they don’t perceive a personal benefit. Mike advises painting a clear picture of how the change will…

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver addresses a common concern from managers: feeling like they work harder than their team. He explains that it’s often normal for leaders and owners to work harder due to higher responsibilities for driving strategic results. Mike emphasizes that while working harder might…

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver addresses a common workplace struggle: procrastinating on important work. Responding as a coach, Mike Staver explores what truly drives procrastination, asking listeners to consider the underlying causes, whether it’s fear of failure, lack of resources, or concerns about outcomes. He underscores that…

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver addresses a common challenge: what should you do when an employee is clearly capable, but continues to underperform? Mike explains that persistent underperformance often stems from a lack of clarity about what high performance looks like. He walks through a step-by-step process…

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, host Mike Staver addresses the common challenge of clients freezing when faced with tough decisions. Drawing on his coaching experience, Mike explains that the root cause is driven by fear. Usually, it’s the fear of making the wrong choice or of negatively impacting others.…

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver tackles the common challenge of holding people accountable without resorting to micromanagement. He redefines accountability not as a weapon, but as “a promise kept.” Mike emphasizes that true accountability hinges on clarity of expectation and mutual agreement. He provides clear examples to…

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver addresses the question of how to deal with individuals who have low emotional intelligence. He explains that the approach depends on the specific area where their emotional intelligence is lacking. If they exhibit low self-awareness, Mike suggests kindly making them aware of…

   Episode Summary In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver addresses an insightful question: What is the difference between coaching somebody and simply giving advice? Mike explains that great coaching is fundamentally different from advice-giving. Coaching is not primarily about offering solutions or telling others what to do; instead, it focuses on…