Episode Summary:
In this episode of Mondays with Mike, Mike Staver addresses a fun yet relatable question: What’s a polite way to say, “I’m too old for this” when declining a party invite? Mike emphasizes that age should never be the excuse—plenty of older individuals still enjoy late-night socializing. Instead, he encourages people to be honest about their personal preferences without diminishing themselves. Rather than blaming age, simply express that you’d rather have a quiet night at home or do something more relaxing. The key is to “speak the truth” and own your choices confidently.
Key Takeaways:
- Age isn’t the issue—preference is. Don’t attribute your decision to an age factor; instead, acknowledge what you truly want.
- Be honest and direct. Simply say you’d prefer a quiet night rather than making excuses.
- Avoid self-deprecating language. Don’t frame yourself as boring or incapable—just state your choice confidently.
- Everyone has different energy levels. Some people enjoy late nights, others don’t—both are okay.
Notable Quotes:
- “I used to sneak out of my house to go to parties. Now I sneak out of parties to go to my house.”
- “Don’t relegate your lack of desire to some age factor.”
- “Speak the truth. Just say, ‘Tonight, I think I’m gonna stay home.’”
- “Don’t make yourself sound like a total dud—just own your preferences.”
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